The most important trait my father instilled in me is a solid work ethic.
At 15, he pushed me to get a work permit and by the summer of my first year in college, I was holding down two jobs.
Dad’s philosophy is tried and true — play the law of averages and don’t fight the system, make the system work for you.
“You don’t always have to be the best, son, just keep coming back,” I remember him telling me in one of his rare tender moments.

While there was a time in my life when jobs were scarce, that was certainly not the case in Portland, where COVID-19 restrictions dragged into 2022. People had grown accustomed to receiving a generous government check for sitting on the couch and logging into Zoom every now and then.
The druggie culture shrank the talent pool even further and in the back of my mind, I knew if given the opportunity I could outperform most of these mediocre White kids.
Even at the ripe ol’ age of 50.
In Alaska, I witnessed first hand how possessing a CDL (Commercial Driver’s License) elevated your career, so when the local transit agency held its annual job fair, I arrived with intent.
Looking back, this is the moment that I took the bull by its horns.
Having been to many job fairs before, I was quite familiar with the routine and upon entering the dreary Doubletree hotel it was easy to recognize the frontline stiffs, on the clock and simply going through the motions. My research indicated there was a path, made possible by organized labor, that got your foot in the door.
The folks handing out brochures at the front tables had all the glee of a middle school librarian. Bypassing them was the first step, although I noticed they were able to discourage other, less experienced job seekers.
Getting an endorsement was the big hurdle here and after sizing up a ballroom full of blue collar types, I was directed to sit with one of the bus mechanics.
A tall Black man, around my age with sprinkles of grey hairs sprouting from his chin that projected a sense of wisdom. He didn’t smile and didn’t want to hear any bullshit.
Just the basics: Why are you here? What are your expectations and what are you willing to do to get there.
“I don’t mind doing the dirty work, done it before,” I told him, signaling that I understood how seniority works in a union shop.
“I like your attitude,” he said, pulling a pen from his chest pocket.
We had a good conversation that flowed easily with mutual candor. At the end, he signed off as a reference, clearing me for the next stage, before offering one last piece of advice.
“Keep your head down and stay out of the drama and you’ll go far,” he said in a slow, matter-of-fact delivery.
With reference in hand, it was on to the DOT medical exam and written tests. Walking out of the Doubletree that day, I felt hopeful with a renewed sense of purpose and confidence.
I could do this.
I had to do this.
Most importantly, I was ready to do this.










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